The first tough decision we''ll have to make in our life is probably after our high school education. This is the time where we''d have to bid goodbye to our some childhood friends, friends we''ve grown up with, friends who''ve been alongside for most of our life up until this moment.
Some of us might tend to follow the crowd, taking the path chosen by the crowd. This situation depicts the beauty of peer influence. In a democratic society, the majority is definitely right, right? As much as we hate this path, some of us might feel very much in need of company, company which is able to put our fears at rest for the time being.
We might regret the choices we''ve made along our life, but certainly not as much as choices made for us or ones with heavy influenc e from the people surrounding us. After all, we''ve been preparing all our lives in order to make the right decisions in our future, the moment we leave our nest.
Man-kinds are very opinionated, especially people surrounding us. No matter what the choice we make, there are bound to be thoughts and opinions against us. Though these views may seem harmless, their influence might affect our judgment.
We should make decisions ourselves as we know what we want. Furthermore, we should also treat other people''s views as a suggestion rather than a decision.
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