It is just too easy to switch into Panic Mode - a mode which makes you recklessly do things that you should not be doing, as you already know that it is a bad idea to do those stuff. There are two common errors that people do, and these errors are avoidable if we managed to keep a cool head.
The first common mistake is drunk dialing. Being depressed gives us a tendency to stay up late in the company of alcohol. And what happens when you have an overdose of alcohol? You become overpowered by your depression, and you miss your ex more and more until you cannot suppress the urge to call them. You dial their number on autopilot (be it accidental or intentional) but when your ex''s voice-mail picks up, you realize that you have n othing to say.
You usually end up saying whatever that is on your mind without filtering them or re-structuring your sentences, which makes you a complete fool and totally destroys any remaining respect your ex still had for you. Of course, this could happen without getting drunk, but the tendency for it to happen is higher when alcohol is involved.
The other mistake is text message terrorism. Usually, this happens right after the break up took place. However, it could also happen for a very long time after break up if you don''t pull yourself together. The main culprit for the occurrence of this mistake? Panic Mode. Panic Mode causes you to freak out and you have no idea what you should do or can do.
You lost direction and the only thing you can think of doing is to harass your ex with text messages, phone calls and emails. Sometimes you even appear at places where you know he will be at. Honestly, all these are only making you look like a desperate loser.
These mistakes ruin your reputation completely. If you had been thinking properly and clearly, you know you wouldn''t have committed them. But the thing is, when you just experienced a break up, it is very hard to remain calm.
However, you must force yourself not to do them now that you recognize them as "mistakes." Remember how dangerous these mistakes could be, and how they ruin every single chance of winning back your ex, thus remember to avoid committing them at all cost.
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